kindness
Kindness towards others is very pleasing to ALLAH almighty and is very meritorious.
Aysehs (May ALLAH be pleased with her always) relates that our Holy Prophet (sallallaahu alaihi wasalam) said :
ان اللہ رفیق یحب الرفق،و یعطی علی الرفق مالا یعطی علی العنف، ومالا یعطی علی ماسواہ۔
“Allah is Forbearer and He loves forbearance, and rewards for forbearance while He does not reward severity, and does not give for anything besides it (forbearance).”.(Sahih Muslim)
in another hadith related by Ayesha (may ALLAH almighty be pleased with her). our Prophet ( may He be eternally blessed) says that:
ان الرفق لایکون فی شیئ الا زانہ ولاینزع من شیئ الا شانہ
“kindness adorns everything and if removed would make if ugly”(Sahih Muslim)
Kindness means that one must avoid using harsh words or harsh attitude in anger, and behave and speak with Kindness. If someone has to be checked or if a difference in opinion is to express, one should not be rough or harsh, but speak softly and kindly. if a younger person has to be trained and strictness can not be avoided, it too should be adopted in moderation or to the extent needed.
Kind behaviour also implies that one must not argue or quarrel with others on every issue and think well of them as far as possible. Even haggling over price should not be harsh or acrimonious. One should be ready to accept another’s viewpoint if it is acceptable, and when if it is not so one should withdraw from argument. It is not good to compel others to agree with one,s own viewpoint and to force them into submission.
Jabir has related that our exalted that our blessed Prophet said that
رحم اللہ رجلا سمحا اذا باع و اذا اشتری واذا اقتضی
“ALLAH is kind to him who is tender and forgiving is selling as well as buying and even when asking others for his due”. (Sahih Bukhari).
Hadhifah ibn Yaman has related that our blessed Prophet said that,
“A bondsman of ALLAH almighty who was given much wealth would be brought before ALLAH almighty and would be asked ‘what did you do in the world?’ He would submit that ‘ Oh my Nourisher. You had given me Your wealth and I traded with it and I was forgiving, so I made it things easy for the rich and allowed time to the poor’. ALLAH almighty would say ‘ I have more right to behave in this manner’ and would then turn to His angels and command them ‘ Release my this bondsman’. (Sahih Muslim)
Abu Hurairah has quoted our blessed Prophet as saying that:
من انظر معسرا او وضع لہ اظلہ اللہ یوم القیامۃ تحت ظل العرش یوم لاظل الا ظلہ
“One who gives time to the poor debtor gives him some relief, ALLAH almighty would keep him in the shade of His throne in the Day of Judgment when there would be no shade save that of His Throne:. (Jami’ Tirmidhi)
Abu Qatadah has quoted our revered and respected Prophet as saying that:
من سرہ ان ینجیہ اللہ من کرب یوم القیامۃ فلینفس عن معسر او یضع عنہ
“One who desires to be relieved of the pains and worries of the Day of Judgment, should ease the troubles of the destitute or ease his loan” (Sahih Muslim)
May ALLAH make us enable to act upon his Deen (ameen)
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